I’m so overloaded. I do not want to give vent to my frustrations, but I know there is a certain element of healthy to being able to do so. Sharing our burdens, so to speak. What’s the difference between whining/complaining and sharing burdens? Perhaps a study for me to look into. Nobody wants to listen [...]
Archive for the ‘Dating’ Category
Just another manic…Wednesday
Posted in BB Sunshine, Dating, Life, Rant, Single Motherhood on August 26, 2009 | 3 Comments »
There’s Nothing Left to Justify
Posted in Dating, Faith, Inspiration, Introspection, Life, Mr. B on July 3, 2009 | 2 Comments »
There’s a saying that goes something like this… We are not human beings having a spiritual experience, we are spiritual beings having a human experience.
I’ve finally come to a space that I’m in complete understanding of this concept. The clarity comes from having observed a relationship through many seasons of life. Five years worth [...]
Getting Vulnerable
Posted in Dating, Introspection, Life, Mr. B on May 22, 2009 | 3 Comments »
You know, when my writing gets stifled, is actually when I have the most to write about. But…I’m afraid. Afraid of judgment. Afraid of the crazy making in my head. To many of you who read my blog, you may actually be able to see this giant gaping wound in my spirit…the one that is [...]
The Climb
Posted in Dating, Faith, Inspiration, Introspection, Life, Music, Single Motherhood, tagged Dating, Faith, God, Inspiration, Introspection, Jesus, Life, Miley Cyrus, Music, Single Parenting, The Climb on May 3, 2009 | 3 Comments »
I mentioned my next door neighbor in a post a little while back. Yesterday something very simple happened but it struck me to my core. He’s an attractive gentleman; tall in stature and built hefty like a solid soccer player. He is a soccer player. He’s from South Africa and has an accent that makes [...]
Covering
Posted in Dating, Faith, Introspection, Life, Singles, tagged Covering, Dating, Faith, Glory of Love, Honor, Inspiration, Introspection, Life, Singles on April 11, 2009 | 6 Comments »
When contemplating the lonliness and seeming isolation of singleness, when a particular individual is on my mind, its so easy to think about, rationalize, and justify all the reasons they could potentially work for me/us. I’ve done it with every man in my world. Rationalize why they WILL eventually work…how could it not? But it [...]
Sunday Soup
Posted in BB Sunshine, Dating, Faith, Inspiration, Introspection, Life, Music, Parenting, Single Dads, Single Motherhood, Soup, tagged 5 Love Languages of Children, Katinas, Life, Love & Logic, Music, Single Dads, Single Moms, Single Parenting, Spring on April 5, 2009 | 5 Comments »
Props back to the Canadian Bald Guy for the verbal appreciation towards single mama jugglers. Can’t get enough of those kinda affirmations. Really. Most days I feel like I’m doing a mediocre job at best because productivity and the best job possible are REALLY difficult to do on a perpetually empty tank. Yes, the little [...]
I Love Because…
Posted in Books, Dating, Faith, Inspiration, Life, tagged Dating, Faith, God, Inspiration, Introspection, Jesus, Life, Love, Single, Truth on March 19, 2009 | 2 Comments »
…He First Loved Me.
I’m reading a book right now called ‘Dating with Pure Passion’. Since I’ve become a Christian, I’ve been on this mad persuit of learning how relationships are supposed to work. Every relationship I’ve ever had has flopped terribly. I did not have any good examples of relationships working while growing up, so [...]
Fortitude
Posted in BB Sunshine, Blended Families, Dating, Faith, Life, Parenting, Single Dads, Single Motherhood, tagged Blended Families, Dating, Faith, Life, Parenting, Single Dads, Single Moms, Single Parenting on March 16, 2009 | 5 Comments »
I have a very special friend that sometimes I think I could spend the rest of my life with. We’re both single parents. And lately, it has occurred to me that it will be only by the grace and strength given by God that this (or any other) union into oblivion would/could ever happen. Because…we [...]
This n That, Single Mama Ponderings
Posted in BB Sunshine, Baby Daddy, Blended Families, Dating, Introspection, Life, Pictures, Single Motherhood on February 23, 2009 | 9 Comments »
As I’m browsing the Single Mama Blogs tonight, I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed by a few things.
First, I’m so secretly (‘reckon it’s not a secret now…) envious and jealous of the good friendship between Ms. Single Mama and Modern Single Mama. I’m so very happy that they are closer together now, but sad that [...]
Why Do Fools Fall in Love?
Posted in Dating, Faith, Singles on February 9, 2009 | 9 Comments »
Nobody enters into a relationship expecting to be played a fool. But somewhere along the line our hopes, dreams, fears, expectations, insecurities and a miriad of other variables get the better of us and we lose ourselves to the folly of the game. ‘The Game’, however, always involves two people and each is responsible for [...]







